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On Age Discimination [Sep. 7th, 2008|12:53 pm]
Just a thought I had the other day.  There has been much media and blogosphere speculation that as John McCain is 72 he might die before completing his presidency making Sarah Palin POTUS.  But for a man of his wealth and background 72 is well under average life expectancy.  Barack Obama however has already long since passed the life expectancy of a young black male in certain parts of the US.    Isn't there a very real issue there?
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Josephine Saxton a query [Sep. 4th, 2008|03:34 pm]
Can anyone out there tell me is the Josephine Saxton who wrote Gardening Down A Rabbit Hole (1996) and Fool In A Garden(1999) the same as the author of The Travails Of Jane Saint, Queen Of The Sates, Power Of Time etc?

Is she still writing?
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Forest Of Sound [Sep. 3rd, 2008|11:58 pm]
[mood | content]
[music |Glissando]

In a clearing in the woods above the southern end of Windermere a band plays to a select crowd.  This is Forest Of Sound, Saturday night at Fell Foot Woods.  A mini-festival in the Lake District that looked to be good fun.

 

When I arrive the post-rock drone of Mato & The Deep Blue Sea greets me, filling the natural bowl of the stage area yet not spreading too far beyond it.  Our host Barry, who runs the campsite here, sees me and introduces himself, pointing out suitable camping areas, and takes my money. 

There’s nothing actually wrong with Mato’s sound, being crisp, heavy and well-played, but it lacks a spark for me.  Perhaps if it was dark, accompanied by lights or visuals?  So I wander up the track to pitch my tent.  The woods are cleared in little patches, some large enough for half a dozen tents, or a tipi, others just single spots.  I only have a small tent so find a spot beneath the trees.

 

By the time I wander back to the stage area the next band are just tuning up.  People from a neighbouring tent helped me set mine up and now invite me over to join them.  I don’t know anything about any of the bands on tonight, and nor do they but that’s not stopping anybody.

 

Stark piano chords and delicate violin strokes introduce Glissando.  The Elly May Irving starts to sing and people start to listen.  I’m hooked, drawn in to a sound echoing 4AD acts and a voice that flits between Sinead O’Connor, Bjork and most fabulously Mary Margaret O’Hara in quality and soars like This Mortal Coil above and through everything else.  At the end of the epic 15-minute ‘Always The Storm’ a chorus of sussurated ‘wow’s and released breath leads into applause.  The last voice to hit me like that in a live setting was Jonssi Birgisson and there is a valid comparison there too.  The darkly elemental lyrics (references to fire, water and storms abound,) subtle, spacious instrumentation and that voice should make Glissando a Sigur Ros-sized success.  Sitting under the trees with a 100 others watching them was a genuine delight.

 

After which, an anti-climax.  A shame for The Declining Winter who had some technical problems.  There mellow guitar sounds were nice enough.  Sat with a bottle of Hobgoblin and some sandwiches I quite enjoyed them, but I remember little of them now. 

 

Several people around me had obviously come from Leeds to see Wintermute, the first actually energetic band of the evening.  Jerky guitar riffs and catch melodic –shouty songs got a few people moving, dancing and responding enthusiastically.  Thoughts of Interpol and Arctic Monkeys guitar sound crossed my mind, and then dramatically structured songs owing something to post-hardcore as well.    I think if I’d driven from Leeds I’d think it was worth the trip.

 

By now the sun had set and Barry lit fires around the site in modest braziers.  The beer and food tent offered a reasonable choice but I had come prepared and above, through the canopy of trees a few stars began to be visible.  The rain had stayed away.

 

Finally, randomNumber took to the stage.  One man with two lap-tops and a projector.  ‘Let me tell you what’s going to happen’ he said, ‘there will be some tricky bits and some quiet bits, so don’t expect a drum and bass disco.’  What happened was a lively well-paced and blended forty minutes or so of electronica that kept my interest remarkably well and even had me dancing for most of the set.   Result, I’d say.

 

And then as the sound guy cleared the stage somebody plugged her iPod into the PA and we danced some more until everything else was clear and it was time to shut down.  Strangely nobody seemed to have brought a guitar but never mind. 

 

In the morning I woke, packed my tent and headed away just as a few spots of rain came.  £11 for a night camping, five bands, two of whom were very good and one outstanding is not a band deal if you ask me.  You should go along yourself next time.  (Deep In The Woods in a few weeks time, find Fell Foot Woods on MySpace and have a look.)

 

 

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Hard Core Logo -- Michael Turner (1993) [Sep. 1st, 2008|01:33 am]
[music |Billy Tallent of course]

Hard Core Logo is a book by esteemed Canadian poet/novelist and erstwhile punk musician Michael Turner.  It was later made into a film starring Callum Keith Rennie by Bruce McDonald with remarkable fidelity until the final shocking scene.

 

The book tells of the fractious reunion tour across Canada undertaken by punk legends Hard Core Logo.  Turner’s technique is to sketch the story out in peripherals: he begins with a letter to HCL lead singer Joe Dick inviting him to reform the band for a charity show.  Subsequent details, such as they are, appear in the form of bassist John’s journal, scrawled set lists, graffiti on dressing room walls, contracts, answerphone messages etc.  Photos of graffiti, of venue doors, of views from the van intersperse the text fragments.

 

Early on Joe introduces himself and the band (guitarist Billy Talent, bassist John Oxenberger and drummer Pipefitter) but is quickly identifiable as unreliable as a narrator and as a band leader.  Despite Turner’s sparse text Joe’s ego and desperate need for this to work out are clear, and clash with his old friend/antagonist Billy who wants more out of his music.  It becomes hard to take sides, both have pride and ego forefront, both have valid reasons in their minds for how they act.  Meanwhile Pipefitter is seeing the payday he was lured back with diminish beyond what he would have made staying at home, and John seems to become the casualty of the band’s earlier incarnations and his neuroses grow steadily over the five day tour.  The band is imploding once more. 

 

Turner’s poetic background is most obvious in the long section ‘Bucky Haight got drunk, told stories’ and there is a feeling that in here he is also laying out some more specific frustrations from his own musical career with Hard Rock Miners.  The poet’s acute awareness of the potential of a few words to paint a picture is behind much of this book though.  Song lyrics also crop up regularly through the book, though without accompanying music.

 

Hard Core Logo is not Turner’s best work, that would probably be American Whiskey Bar, and it contrasts sharply with the deep and lengthy The Pornographer’s Poem on the surface, but it is an intriguing and clever book.  Michael Turner should be more widely read, whichever of his books you try.

 

Rumour has it that McDonald is planning a sequel (or sequels) to his film, but Turner’s name has not been mentioned at all.  His original film would seem to have ruled out an sequel, and Turner’s book seems thematically opposed to ‘going back’ as well.  Not that such considerations ever stopped anybody before.

 

 

 

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Gutter Press Shock [Sep. 1st, 2008|12:49 am]
[music |Voi Vod -- Divine Sun]

Just discovered this story, almost a year old now
http://www.economist.com/blogs/certainideasofeurope/britain_and_poland/

Sue Reid, investigative journalist for the Daily Mail offered various Poles money to bring over a Polish registered car and drive around breaking various laws with the intent of producing evidence for a story on how migrant workers can flout (Why is it always 'flout'?) these laws with impunity. 

Surely there must be laws against soliciting someone to break the law (even, as in this case, civil law rather than criminal?)  Is it not possible to seize the proceeds of criminal actions, and though the proposed offences were not criminal surely the solicitation is, which in this case would be the receipts of that particular edition of the Daily Mail?

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Did I Shave My head For This? [Aug. 25th, 2008|01:31 am]

Saturday night, a northern town.  You aren’t part of the trendy scene, want something different.  Where do you go?  The library.

WTF?  Yes, the library.  There’s a band playing and they’re loud.  ‘Nobody’s shushing me’ says a slightly bemused singer.

 

The Death Set hail from in their words ‘Worldwide’ (Australia via Baltimore, Brooklyn and beyond) and play a raucous, wonderful, exuberant form of hardcore punk.  And they’re damn good at it.  Eschewing a stage, they play amongst the crowd, the guitarist in the midst of a circle of moshing, hoodied singer Johnny Siera climbing the shelves and screaming the words to ‘MFDS’ from a window ledge above us. 

 

The girl on the door says she looked them up on the internet and found The Death Set described as some new genre of ‘indie transgressive crossover something.’  Well we all know the internet never lies, don’t we my friends, but let me tell you now.  The Death Set are not radically new, this is no new genre.  They sound like Minor Threat and Black Flag and Gorilla Biscuits.  (This is a Good Thing.)   Wait, that sounds like The Beastie Boys*.  There’s a hip-hop thing in the noise somewhere, the recurrent use of their name as a chant (mother fucking death set!  Motherfucking death set! Motherfucking Death Set!)  Most of all they’re just great fun.   I jump around, punch the air, shout along.   The security are shitting themselves at Johnny’s antics.   Everyone else is loving it.  Including if not especially, The Death Set. 

 

They play Reading the day after Lancaster.  Reading Festival after Lancaster Library.  ‘Thanks for letting us practise’ says Johnny, and they’re gone.  How many songs in how many minutes?  I don’t know.  (The CD has 18 in 26)  I know people are buzzing, sweaty and exhilarated.  Its not yet 10 o’clock.  Way to start a night.  

 

*Johnny tells me he lives on the edge of West Baltimore (The Wire territory), the hyper-energetic drummer’s from Brooklyn, so a Dischord/B=Boys influence is hardly surprising.  That they do it so well might be more so. 

 

[Get It Loud In Libraries is an award-winning project set up about three years ago to put on regular gigs in Lancaster library.  Previously the likes of Bat For Lashes, Adele, The Wombats, Black Kids, Field Music, The Thrills and (of course) Mr Hudson & The Library have played here.   Next month they’ve booked a genuine legend: Robert Forster is playing Lancaster.  I don’t suppose he’ll climb the bookshelves.]

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Well done Team London [Aug. 19th, 2008|02:53 pm]

Yes, Team GB are to get a parade in London on their triumphant return from Beijing.  Such an honour, and a chance for friends of Chris Hoy, Rebecca Adlington, Ben Ainslie, Nicole Cooke etc to get the Tube in from London suburbs such as Edinburgh, Mansfield, Macclesfield and Swansea.

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China [Aug. 11th, 2008|08:08 pm]
http://www.penpoemrelay.org/about-the-poem 

This poem is by Shi Tao, imprisoned for circulating a Chinese government directive not to report on the 15th anniversary of Tiananmen Square.  Yahoo provided evidence at his trial.

June

by Shi Tao

My whole life

Will never get past “June”
June, when my heart died
When my poetry died
When my lover
Died in romance’s pool of blood

June, the scorching sun burns open my skin
Revealing the true nature of my wound
June, the fish swims out of the blood-red sea
Toward another place to hibernate
June, the earth shifts, the rivers fall silent
Piled up letters unable to be delivered to the dead

Translated to English from Chinese by Chip Rolley.

 
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Farewell to the only Scientologist i had time for [Aug. 11th, 2008|04:23 pm]
 Guess I'll be listening to Hot Buttered Soul tonight....
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[Aug. 8th, 2008|09:08 pm]
The London Evening Standard has apologised for raising people's hopes prematurely.
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Some Short Notes [Aug. 6th, 2008|12:31 am]
I just sent off some nominations for this years BSFA short fiction Award as follows:

Your Collar -- Elizabeth Bear
The story of the Minotaur in modern times, told with delicate pathos and remarkable technical skill in second person.
Captain Ordinary -- Terry Bisson
A wonderful affectionate swipe at Mundane SF with that gentle satirical tone that Bisson does so well. When he gets it right nobody can touch him at making a simple story so much more than the sum of its parts.

The Stamp -- Terry Bisson
Another simple, classic SF story by Bisson that somehow gets to the heart of things in very few words, but conveys that sensawunda and joy perfectly.

The Disemboweller -- Ekaterina Sedia
T his is the first I've read by Sedia, but on this showing she could easily become one of my favourites. Hal Duncan on his blog (can't find the link right now) explains better than I can how this story balances the truly weird with the normal to entice the reader in, to mystify and intrigue and to charm the pants off that reader.

A Buyer's Guide To Maps of Antarctica -- Catherynne M. Valente 
This is the sort of story that can be done very badly, a fake catalogue of maps, alternating real and fantastic, along with commentary that reveals a decades long feud between two map makers one scrupulously perfectionist, the other, curiously documenting mysterious creatures, illuminating his maps with anachronistic legend.  It can be done badly, but Valente gets the tone of each strand right, playing Borgesian games of hints and reveals and then offers a beautiful conclusion.   

All these wondewrful stories are on line.  Go read them.  Or tell me where I can find better
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Begging -- of sorts [Aug. 3rd, 2008|01:53 am]
[music |Vanilla Trainwreck -- Mordecai]

I wasn't sure about this, but I'm going to do it anyway.

I need help.  I'm only just making ends meet some months, not the major crises of a couple of years ago, my debts are mostly gone or greatly reduced, but just not a lot of spare money.

And I need a replacement computer.  The PC I had no longer recognises its modem and keeps freezing up as well.  This one is running Windows 98 and is regularly unstable.  Anybody out there got a PC they have replaced that I could relieve them of?  Or suggestions to improve what i have at little or no cost?


I also need a holiday, some kind of break, and my mind has wandered back to the days when i used to hitch around fandom sleeping on floors etc.  That was when I managed to get to SF events more often, London meets, Leeds Group,  etc.   So if anyone is willing to put me up occasionally that would be kind.

Thanks
Kev
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Writer's Block: Immigration [Aug. 1st, 2008|09:01 pm]
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If you had to immigrate from your current home, where in the world would you choose to go?

Submitted by [info]purplemer3


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Do you not mean EMIGRATE?  Im-migrate meaning inwards, as in immigrants entering a country.  E-migrate meaning outwards as in leaving a country.   It isn't a difficult distinction in a 'Writer's' group surely.

As for where I'd emigrate to?  There are places I love to visit, but to live is a different matter.  Baltimore as I have family there and its a great city, or Ireland.


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CRETIN ROC* [Jul. 26th, 2008|02:25 pm]
Carol Voorderman is quitting Countdown.  Cue repeated assertions, including from C4 themselves, that she was 'the first woman to appear on Channel 4'  --- Oh no she wasn't.  The original hostesses of Countdown, handling the letters part of the show and thus appearing before Ms V were Kathy Hytner and Beverley Isherwood.  And If I recall, in the early days Carol only did alternate episodes anyway, sharing with another presenter for the numbers portion.  

Me, I always preferred Susie Dent ;-)
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Olympic Ideals [Jul. 24th, 2008|03:40 pm]
http://news.bbc.co.uk/sport1/hi/olympics/7523708.stm 

Olympic committees must, under the rules, be free of Political Influence.

Head Of the GB Olympic Bid and Former Conservative MP Lord Coe made no comment.
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Second Hand Fame -- A True Story [Jul. 19th, 2008|01:14 am]

Tonight I was mistaken for a man named Marvin.  This has never happened to me before.  If it ever happens again, if it happens recurringly, I might get annoyed.  Paranoid.

 

Later, when I found out just who this Marvin is, I was flattered.  I don’t know if Marvin felt the same, I doubt anybody thought to tell him.

 

Actually, he sort of looks like me, or I like him, I suppose, in a certain light at a certain angle from a certain distance.

 

He’s a poet, and I’m not, but once at a fancy dress, silly hat party I wore a big yellow foam rubber cheese on my head and was known, for one night only, as ‘The Cheeseman.’

 

Tonight I was mistaken for a man named Marvin Cheeseman and not many people can claim that, can they.
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The Sound Of The Suburbs [Jul. 18th, 2008|12:48 pm]

According to this report http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/7509968.stm a think tank has called the word 'chav' offensive to working class people.  Bollocks, its patronising in the extreme to suggest that all working class people are 'chavs'  but most laughable was the description of chavs as 'largely voiceless' -- as far as I can tell they have a voice, a loud and annoying one.

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A Query on Racism [Jul. 13th, 2008|04:39 am]

My boss was talking about a wedding she is due to attend soon.  In the evening there is to be a ‘traditional Iranian buffet.’

Colleague K asked ‘Is she marrying a rag head then?’

 

I had to say something, but what exactly?  I worry if I object too strongly my views will just be dismissed as cranky, ‘political correctness’ and ignored.  Create too big an issue and cause a divide to open that prevents any dialogue on the issue?  Maybe speak to my boss later, asking her to act?  Then she would have the same problem.  Of course she has a different authority over K, but I am the one who has been trained as Equality and Diversity Champion.  It’s feasible that a similar incident might be referred back to me for ‘guidance’ anyway.

 

It is complicated for me, by what I know of K.  He’s blunt, doesn’t suffer fools, and would reject any suggestion of what he couldn’t say.  But I don’t believe he meant ‘rag head’ in a racist way.  Maybe that sounds strange, but I think for him at that moment it was just equivalent to ‘scouser’ or ‘geordie’ or ‘jock.’  In his mind it was just a label, mildly pejorative perhaps, but little more than that.

 

Now I’m not saying K is not racist, any more than I would claim not to be racist.  It’s cultural, ingrained, and though I try not to be I make mistakes or simply don’t realise sometimes.  So it wasn’t a slur as such.  This doesn’t excuse it, but I think it is important to distinguish such remarks from the active BNP-like racism of abuse, of hatred and prejudice.  I can fight those with logic and fact.  This is a different problem and requires a different solution.  One I’m afraid I don’t have.

 

So what did I say?  In a light tone:

“Com on K, don’t forget your Equality & Diversity training, you can’t use words like that.”

And that was that, for now.

 

 

By the way, I know that the objectionable little scumbag William Sanders recently used a similar term (again) but the context of his remark was altogether nastier and full of hate and not the near neutral use K adopted.  Last time I criticised Sanders he threatened to publicise the mistake I made in a relationship that ended in 1989.  I am not proud of what i did, it was perhaps the worst thing I ever did, but if thats how he gets his thrills then go ahead.  Publish and be damned.)

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Lewis Shiner -- Black & White [Jul. 13th, 2008|03:58 am]
(Subterranean Press, 2008)

Black & White is Lewis Shiner’s sixth novel, and as with its predecessors is both radically different and essentially similar to what went before.  This time his setting is the predominantly black neighbourhood of Hayti in Durham, North Carolina in the 60s and the same now gentrified part of town in the current age. 

Michael Cooper is a mid-30s comics artist, his father Richard was once a civil engineer responsible for the demolition of much of Hayti to build an expressway.  Now Richard is dying of cancer and has insisted on coming back to Durham for treatment, though neither Michael nor his mother initially realise why.   Hints made by his father lead Michael to track down some family history and the discovery of a previously unknown murder of Civil Rights activist Barrett Howard.

Moving mainly between Richard’s story in the 60s and Michael’s researches now, Shiner frames a classic suspense story with sufficient false leads to keep anyone intrigued to the end, but his real story is, as the title suggests, of race and racism.  Grand themes but by focussing on sympathetic individuals he is able to show the invidious effects of cultural racism on even those who think themselves unprejudiced.  In particular, Richard’s wife Ruth is a remarkable depiction of a woman whose upbringing creates a devotion to her racist father that is unshakeable and a love for her husband against all odds.  Ruth is the solid immovable object around which Richard and Michael orbit, tying them in when circumstances would collapse the system.  Her black counterpart in the early years is Mercy, Barrett’s mistress and seemingly that other archetype of Southern womanhood, erotic, spiritual and quietly powerful.  Typically Shiner is his honest and perceptive representation of how men view women and respond to their strengths and weaknesses.  In fact most of the women here are strong and confident in their roles, even Denise, the love interest for Michael, actually guides their relationship.

The story of how a thriving and vibrant black neighborhood was wilfully destroyed in the name of progress and how visionary individuals in the twenty-first century are reclaiming it was clearly Shiner’s motivation for Black & White, and whilst this is occasionally drawn in rather broad strokes, he balances it with humour and tenderness.  As with his peers, George Pelecanos and perhaps David Simon (though Black & White is less violent than either of those writers works), Shiner’s political anger is based in a genuine love for ordinary people trying to live good lives.  Ultimately he lays down a challenge though: do something, anything, however small to make things better.

 

It is in this challenge that the obvious connection with Shiner’s earlier novels comes out.  By the end of Black & White Michael has broken off his professional relationship with the manipulative writer Roger to spend more time on work he enjoys.  It is a new life to go with his newly discovered heritage, and it echoes the new identity taken by Dave in Slam, the joy in his work re-discovered by Ray in Glimpses and the coming to terms with life shown throughout Shiner’s novels.

 

The difference here is not simply that it is a suspense novel rather than SF, Fantasy, Rock’n’roll story or whatever but partly in its prose and partly something more significant.  In the past Shiner has tended towards a stripped down, rareified prose.  Black & White is in no way flowery but it is a richer brew.  The major difference seems to me to be in terms of autobiography.  Shiner has said on his website that most of his fiction is autobiographical in parts, there are scenes in Glimpses directly lifted from the author’s relationship with his late father.  Conflicted Father-son relationships are central to much of Shiner’s longer work, but in Black & White for the first time it seems that just as Richard came back to Durham to make peace with himself, so Shiner has done this with his writing the novel. 

 

Having written the best rock music SF or Fantasy novel ever, in Glimpses, a cyberpunk classic (Frontera), and an 80s counterculture personal utopia (Slam) as well as a slew of provocative short stories Shiner has taken on a new challenge and not only mastered the suspense genre but possibly created his finest work yet.  What’s more he has put it out on his ‘Fiction Liberation Front’ website for free. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Mum [Jul. 10th, 2008|07:48 pm]
[mood | sad]

I've been thinking a lot lately about childhood and my adolescent years.  My counsellor asked me what they were like and it wasn't easy to answer.   Somethings I remember vividly, other things are lost which is not unusual but its the nature of some of the lost things that troubled me.

I was diagnosed with TB not long after returning from a family holiday in Lurgan.  My grandfather had it and we all had to be tested.  My sister, then aged 2, was clear and so were mum and dad, but the Heaf Test on my left arm grew up angry purple and raised.  So I was taken into hospital for what I remember being around 3 months, including Christmas and my 5th birthday.  It is some of the meories from back then that are missing.

What I do recall, clearly:

My bed being raised at the foot to keep fluid from my chest.  At home dad cut some logs to do this for me when I got a cold afterwards.

One night dad visited and took me to the window to see his new car, his first proper car, a Hillman Husky.  (You know I wracked my brains trying to dig that up, I knew it wasnt an Imp or a Hunter but I eventually asked Dad what model it was.  He told me how a family friend had loaned him £100 to buy it, a story I obviously didnt know then.

I recall being taught basic reading and writing skills and proudly showing dad I could write my name ... until I got as far as putting a 'y' after McVe and dad realised the teacher had spelt my surname wrong.  Not for the last time.  On the loft somewhere is probably that same book with the corrected name plate.

There was the Captain Scarlet sticker book he brought in.  Whether that was the same book he stayed late to read from, earning a severe reprimand from matron for being on the ward after the bell, or not I don't know.

At CHristmas that year I got a Matchbox Motorway car set that had to wait til I came home.  I think there was also an issue with a transformer that dad had to resolve.

For my birthday my Nan had baked a cake shaped like a train, my grandfather gave me a watch nad I remeber him telling me it was so I would learn to tell the time.

Have you noticed anything odd yet?  It struck me only recently, 38 years later, that i have no specific memories from that time of my mum visiting.  None at all.  I know she must have done, but unlike the clear and detailed memories above of her I have nothing.  Why?  
Mum didn't drive, she had my baby sister to look after, she had been ill herself, the ongoing heart problem that first stopped any more children and later needed surgery, money was tight (at one point dad had two jobs.)  The hospital, Beaumont in lancaster was on a bus route and I do remember one thing.  Mum and my Nan took me on the bus when I went into hospital.  I think it was a Tuesday afternoon certainly I associated Tuesdays with that for years.  

So I asked Dad one night, the night i found the confidence to tell him I've been depressed.   He remebered some of the stories I mentioned, explained how he came to have the car and so on, and he told me how mum visited nearly every day on the bus during the afternoon, and he came at night.  After a while Mum got talking to the parents of another boy in the ward, people who lived along the same route, and they gave her regular lifts to see me.  She did visit, but I can't remember.

It's comforting to know but its weird, slightly worrying that the blanks in my memory seem so one-sided.  I wish i knew.

Yesterday was the 13th anniversary of mum's death so I can't ask her.  And I feel guilty for doubting her.
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